Leave engaged people alone!

Please. They have so many decisions to make and the guest list is a huge one. They don’t know their budget yet, they don’t know where or when it is, and they definitely don’t know what they want yet.

Leave them to plan! Tell them congratulations and never, ever ask them if you’re invited. Even if you’re the bestie, even if you’re family. Don’t. Ask. Let them enjoy their engagement.