REAL WEDDINGS, REAL TALK

Carolyn Johnson 4/17/26 Carolyn Johnson 4/17/26

Do you want to DIY your wedding arch?

If you want to make your own arch for your big day, that is totally fine. But you MUST ask yourself some questions! It can get complicated fast.

a gold circular wedding arch in front of white drapes with blue, pink, and white flowers on the top and bottom. greenery lines the floor in front of it. — Fox + Ivory Photography

If you want to make your own arch for your big day, that is totally fine. But you MUST ask yourself some questions!

Do you have to build it before the day? If not, how long does it take? Add half an hour to any estimare you come up with.
Who has the vehicle space to haul a completed arch?
How much stuff do you need to build it? Zip ties, pool noodles, fake flowers?
Can you bring it to the venue beforehand?
Who is going to set it up?
Does it need to be taken down after the ceremony? Who will have the time and do that?
Who is going to move it if you want it at the reception?
Can you preserve whatever is attached or will it be ruined when taken apart?
How do you keep it nice so it can be reused?
Who is taking it down at the end of the night? Who is hauling it away?

This is the kind of thing that seems easy and will save money, but you HAVE to think through all the logistics so that you don’t stress yourself out.

And if you hire a coordinator, make sure they will build arches!

Carolyn Johnson 4/15/26 Carolyn Johnson 4/15/26

AELO Alumni | Lizzie + Brady, 11/1/25

Congratulations Lizzie and Bradyl! It was such a treat to celebrate with this sweet couple on a beautiful fall day at the Greenhouse Loftl This wedding had it all - gorgeous decor (most of it created by the bride and her mother!), a touching ceremony and an unforgettable day filled with lots and lots of love. We are so happy for Lizzie and Brady and wish them a lifetime of happiness.

bride and groom stand under the staircase at the Rookery, Chicago, looking at each other

Carolyn Johnson 4/13/26 Carolyn Johnson 4/13/26

Do you need to pay for your wedding party’s hair and makeup?

It’s not a definitive answer, but if you are requiring your people to get their hair and makeup done, our answer is yes.

Your folks are already spending hundreds or even thousands to be a part of your beautiful day. Feel free to offer the option of styling, and exactly how much it will cost. Try not to require it. They will be beautiful just as they always are! And if you are going to require it, our opinion is that you should definitely pay.

Carolyn Johnson 4/8/26 Carolyn Johnson 4/8/26

AELO Alumni | Katie + Matthew, 11/1/25

Katie and Matthew’s celebration was truly unforgettable. Their ceremony took place in the historic Mayfair Theater, where the timeless decor and incredible acoustics created the perfect setting for their harpist and heartfelt vows. Following the ceremony, guests enjoyed cocktail hour on the 2nd floor, surrounded by fascinating artifacts and unique decor that sparked conversation and added to the venue’s charm. The evening continued in the elegant Erin Room, where Katie and Matthew danced the night away with their family and friends. It was a beautiful celebration filled with love, laughter, and lasting memories.

A groom in a white tuxedo and a bride in a mermaid gown kiss in front of their large, cheering bridal party who wear black gowns and black tuxes

Carolyn Johnson 4/1/26 Carolyn Johnson 4/1/26

AELO Alumni | Marisa + Declan, 10/31/25

Marisa and Declan’s Halloween wedding was the perfect blend of romance, personality, and seasonal charm. The fall day couldn’t have been more beautiful—crisp air, vibrant foliage, and the city skyline framing their heartfelt “I dos.” Their personalized vows had everyone laughing, capturing the sweet and playful essence of their relationship. Thoughtful nods to Halloween added a fun twist, from festive candy treats to a themed photo booth that guests couldn’t get enough of. One of the most memorable moments came when Marisa and Declan cut their cake using her grandfather’s Marine saber—a touching tribute to his memory and service. As the night went on, the celebration only grew livelier, with the dance floor packed from start to finish—a true reflection of the love and joy that filled the day.